Kissing with teeth

Love and perversion (of the greatest kind)

True love

“God I love you!! That’s the sexiest thing I’ve seen in weeks!!” - Onyx reacting to my nailing a long range critical headshot in Borderlands.

Oh my god, saran wrap where have you been all my life?! This might be my new absolute favorite kind of bondage<3

Oh my god, saran wrap where have you been all my life?! This might be my new absolute favorite kind of bondage<3

Poly etiquette according to KwT #8

If you are the primary, don’t be a douche about it.

Also known as “secondarys are people too”. It doesn’t matter if they are “lower” in the hierarchy, everyone deserves to be respected and listened to, both by their partner and their metamour.

Anonymous asked: with this poly thing, I don't really get it either... how does it work? is it hard?

Polyamory, or poly for short, is the practice of consensual non-monogamy, a lovestyle allowing for a person to have more than one romantic relationship with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.

This can take many different forms, and I’m in no position to represent the entire poly-community, but I can share my experience of being poly.

It works basically the same way as all relationships (romantic or otherwise). If people feel that their needs are not met, that they are not sufficiently appreciated or that they are being kept in the dark or lied to, they might become sad, angry or hurt. If that happens, you find a way to talk about it and try and work out a way for everyone to be happy.

It’s both harder and easier than monolife. Instead of using the predefined boyfriend/girlfriend-arrangement you have to spend time negotiating and planing your relationships more or less from scratch. That means more work, but also that you and your partners will end up with relationships custom made to fit you.

church-mouth asked: Are you okay?

Yes I am, and thank you so much for asking! Last fall, my life got incredibly stressful for a couple off months and I ended up giving up almost all of my Internet activity to find time for school, work, my sweeties and my biological family. When things calmed down, I had simply lost the habit of tumblring, so this was a good reminder to get back in the game:) You will probably see more posts from me soon again.

Preparing

I’m packing my bag to go spend four whole days with Onyx, as his toy. He has told me to bring my spreader, some vibrators and butt plugs and some of my pvc-clothes.

I don’t really know what he’s got planned, but I’m incredibly exited!